So upset i think i seriously should leave my husband this time ?

Wow, I think he cares more for the vehicles than you. That's really wrong. He should listen to you and be more concern about you than the stupid car. It wasn't even your fault and he is making it your fault? That's another problem, he should be on your side at all times even when you are wrong. Just relax for the moment and when he is more calm try talking to him again. If he makes you at fault again leave him.