Being a good muslim prevents me from fitting in with others....?

Alot of muslims have said this to me.Is this true?I also feel this way....i am trying to do jihad with my heart..i.e trying to pray and stop watching Tv and listening to music but then i dont fit in with my friends even my muslim friends.They're all aalimahs(religious scholars got their degree in Islamic Theology)but they dont follow it....and then im supposed to go to people like this for advice??they listen to music non stop,have boyfriends,love ,backbiting.Everybody is like this nowadays..nobody cares about religion even the scholars in mosque...Why isnt Allah doing something?I feel like im the one doing wrong and that my parents shouldnt be so devout also as nobody else is.i dont think i come from a strict Muslim family.Its just my personal choices....im not a part time muslim....are their any full time good muslims out there?and have u noticed the same??shall i give up?or are these signs of the qiyaamah.oh yeh and as a muslim are we supposed to just live for the aakhirah ?